How to change your wife's mind about divorce
How to stop separation
How to win wife's heart back
How to rebuild broken trust
How to forgive and be forgiven
How to save marriage after affair
Turnaround "I'm not in love with you"
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“I finally feel like I have my wife back.”
"We laugh again. We talk again. I didn’t think that was possible a few months ago." – Rhys

“This gave me the tools to reconnect with her—fast.”
"She went from distant and cold to actually wanting to spend time with me again. It changed everything." – Dave

* DISCLAIMER: Based on client feedback from those who attended therapy and reported better results with our program. Individual results may vary.

- John McAdams
If your wife is in love with another man and so fed up with marriage that she wants divorce and she isn't willing to do couples therapy anymore, then traditional marriage counseling will NOT work for you. You need to have a different approach to save your marriage on a brink of divorce.
While marriage counseling requires both spouses to actively want to save the marriage, The Wanted Man Formula does NOT!
In fact...
Our Wanted Man Formula is designed to succeed where traditional marriage counseling fails:
Wife Disengaged: The Wanted Man Formula saved countless marriages where wife didn't want to work on marriage anymore and wanted legal separation or divorce
Wife Seeing Another Man Or Cheating: The Wanted Man Formula saved countless marriages where wife was in love with another man and was having a physical and emotional affair with another man
Wife Filed For Divorce: The Wanted Man Formula saved countless marriages where wives have already filed for divorce. Most of our clients in fact are in this situation, and with The Wanted Man Formula we have incredibly high success rate of turning around marriages.
Effective In "Same House" Situations As Well: The Wanted Man Formula works in all stages of separation and divorce. Cases where clients are still living in the same house and sleeping in same bed or separate rooms often get resolved within weeks, while more difficult cases often take 8-12 weeks.
"This training guided me STEP-BY-STEP on what to say and do to save my marriage after my wife told me she wanted divorce"
* DISCLAIMER: Based on client feedback from those who attended therapy and reported better results with our program. Individual results may vary.
“I finally feel like I have my wife back.”
"We laugh again. We talk again. I didn’t think that was possible a few months ago." – Rhys

“This gave me the tools to reconnect with her—fast.”
"She went from distant and cold to actually wanting to spend time with me again. It changed everything." – Dave

No Need To Bring Back Past & Talk About The Problems: It doesn't require you to dredge up past conflicts or talk endlessly about problems, which is often counterproductive but often encouraged in marital therapy.
Step-By-Step Action-Oriented: We guide you step-by-step what to do to change your wife's mind about divorce, change her she feels about you and how to rebuild trust and love that you once had. We focus is on your actions. We guide you step-by-step through stages that heal wounds, rebuild broken trust, and reignite love and intimacy—even if your wife is currently disinterested.
Word-For-Word Help: Many clients who work with Ryan individually like to have his help with exactly what to say or text their wife in specific situations. With The Wanted Man Formula, we help you with each part of the process.
Effective Even in Tough Cases: Most of our clients come in very difficult situations, which is why over the years the Wanted Man Formula was develop to work even in very difficult scenarios. We saved marriages where wives moved to another country, we saved marriages where couples counselors told couples there is no hope for them to ever get back together and they should move on, and we helped many men save their marriages where wives had medical conditions, addictions or bipolar disorders. The Wanted Man Formula is designed to work even in very difficult cases, but with difficult cases it usually it takes more time to reconcile and get the marriage where it was before.
Hi, I’m Ryan Smith. I’m a marriage coach and founder of the Wanted Man Formula — a proven system designed specifically for men whose wives have emotionally or physically checked out of the marriage.
For years, I watched traditional couples counseling fail men in your exact situation — where your wife doesn’t want to talk, doesn’t want to try, and may have already filed for divorce. I knew there had to be a better way. So I spent the past decade studying what actually works when one person wants out… and the other is desperate to save the marriage.
That’s how the Wanted Man Formula was born.
It’s not therapy. It’s not a “talk-it-out” session.
It’s a step-by-step process to rebuild trust, re-attract your wife, and turn the relationship around — even if she’s moved out, is seeing someone else, or says she’s “not in love with you anymore.”
Our approach has helped countless men stop divorce, even after being told it was “too late.” It’s been called the #1 alternative to marriage counseling and has been endorsed by relationship experts, coaches, and psychologists across the country.
If your marriage feels impossible to save, I want you to know something:
It’s not over.
You just need the right strategy — and that’s exactly what I’ll show you inside the free training.
- Ryan Smith

Watch The Masterclass
Learn The 5-Step Method To Stop Divorce or Separation
Book Evaluation Call
With one of our experts to show you what to do.
Step By Step Coaching
Your coach, Ryan Smith, will apply the "Wanted Man System" to your situation and guide you step by step to save your marriage.

How to change your wife's mind about divorce
How to stop separation
How to win wife's heart back
How to rebuild broken trust
How to forgive and be forgiven
How to save marriage after affair
Turnaround "I'm not in love with you"